Deal Breakers

     I always wonder why people waste time one relationships trying to be with someone that they're not meant to be with in the first place. They meet someone whom they think is attractive, and then lower their standards to be with this person. Sometimes I wonder if people actually have deal breakers anymore. If you don't have deal breakers, then I think that maybe you should set yourself some standards. If you're a smart independent woman, it might not be the best idea to date a man with no job, goals, and ambition. If you're an established confident man, it might not be the best idea to date the girl you see dropping it at the club every night.
     I've met people that say that they're only dating a particular person for "right now," but actually have no intention on marrying that person, or even being with that person long term, because the person doesn't fit their ideal standards.
     Sometimes I wonder if the reason that people go against their deal breakers is because they have a need to be needed in a relationship. If that's the case, do we want a life partner, or are we all just settling for a grown kid to raise?

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